Tobysgirl, maybe it's just my wishful thinking, but I think the with every generation it gets a little better. I'm 35 and some of the straight guys I know, like my husband, loved BBM and some won't go see it. But my 16year old cousin, who is female, has seen it twice and almost all of the straight guys in her high school class have seen it and it's not a big deal, they all loved it and there's no shame in admitting they saw it and loved it. Perhaps I'm looking through rose colored glasses, but I have to believe we are evolving.