Thank you very much!
Yes you get the point,I second everything you've said.
I'm not really upset with them, it just came as a surprise because they're people who has no issues at all with homosexuality being (some of them)gay themselves,or very open minded guys, it's just that they focused only on the technical aspect of the movie....it was too slow,I didn't like the actor, dialogs were stupid,their make-up and so on...and didn't even mention the inner meanings, but this is just a way to get to know better the people you hung out with.
When my mum talks about the movie(she's 60),and she laughs a bit nervously and says ...ah the movie of those "good-looking" guys, well I can understand that and there are no problems.
But when this silly humor comes from young,smart people it makes me wonder.... not cos they didn't like the movie, which I couldn't care less,but because they avoided a more serious dialog that a movie like this can offer...
So I also realize how difficult it must be for those who REALLY suffer because they have to deal with parents,friends,or relatives who are completely unprepared to deal with their personal choices which are not necessarily related to their sexuality.
Luckily I just have to deal with some friends with awful tastes.....(joking)...