Well, here's an experience I had last night at the wedding.
I was approached by one of my friends, he was also the very first person I came out to. he was talking to me about some things, and then he mentioned the fact that I had my shirt unbuttoned down two buttons, and was showing off some chest hair, which is something I had never done before.
from there, the conversation took a more serious turn, and I told him that I kinda felt like that I wasn't spending enough time with "the group", and missing out with them, due to the get togethers with the brokies. He told me that "the group" had mentioned that, and that they didn't see it that way.
They were all very happy that I have met you (and the bm members), and that I had bonded with people who had some of the same thoughts and issues that I do, that you all could be there for me in ways they couldn't.
He also said that they were watching the changes I've been going through (weight loss, personality, confidence) and were viewng it as my own journey of self growth, and are waiting for the time that I bring that 'special someone' to them to meet.
Went home feeling really good.