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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #480 on: March 04, 2008, 08:24:30 AM »
I don't know if this post should go on this thread or Planet Heath but here goes, anyway....

It's Tuesday.  Every Tuesday since Heath died I find myself thinking, One week ago today...two weeks ago today...etc.  Well, now it's six weeks.  It's not a conscious thing--it just happens.  And of course a month from today is Heath's birthday.  I just feel so helpless and enraged whenever I think of this beautiful man and so despondent when I think of the pain he was going through.  I just can't bear to watch any of his films just yet.  As I wrote recently, just looking at the front of the DVD of A KNIGHT'S TALE with Heath in all his curly blond beauty, looking fierce but not obnoxiously so, made me cry.  Time will help but I just felt a deep melancholy today and just had to post my feelings.  Thanks for bearing with me.

Mark 

People grieve in different ways. Some people feel a pain so great they are too afraid to go there. Others wallow, poke at those raw feelings like a toothache. Sorry you are feeling sad. Many hugs and thoughts and hope you feel better soon.
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #481 on: March 04, 2008, 09:25:16 AM »
Heath also danced in BBM, Knight's Tale, Four Feathers, Casanova, 10 things....
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #482 on: March 04, 2008, 11:26:29 AM »
He sang in 10 Things and Lords of Dogtown (and hummed in BBM) 
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #483 on: March 04, 2008, 12:18:30 PM »
I didn't like Casanova when I first saw it but on further viewing I think it is soooo funny. Heath was quite effeminate and mincing in it and sooooo hilarious - he has a spot on sense of comic timing. . My favourite line is 'it's impossible for him to look any worse......... Good God you've achieved the impossible'. Every time I see it I find something else to chuckle at.
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #484 on: March 04, 2008, 08:36:30 PM »
Rufus Wainwright jokes about Heath's death.

Wainwright on Heath Ledger's death:

 "I wrote this song for Rivers Phoenix when he died. Now I sort of see it as Heath Ledger's song. Like my friend said, 'They always die after playing a gay person."

http://boards.rufuswainwright.com/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=546398&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=3&vc=1

(I am appalled that a Gay Man would joke about Heath's death after what Heath did for the gay comunity!)
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #485 on: March 05, 2008, 01:12:41 AM »
(and he hums in BBM too, twice)


Hi Mini!  :)

Really? He hums twice? Where apart from the "sleeping on your feet like a horse" scene?
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #486 on: March 05, 2008, 01:29:22 AM »
(and he hums in BBM too, twice)


Hi Mini!  :)

Really? He hums twice? Where apart from the "sleeping on your feet like a horse" scene?

He's humming right before he encounters the bear when he's bringing their food back to camp. :)
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #487 on: March 05, 2008, 01:38:08 AM »
Rufus Wainwright jokes about Heath's death.

Wainwright on Heath Ledger's death:

 "I wrote this song for Rivers Phoenix when he died. Now I sort of see it as Heath Ledger's song. Like my friend said, 'They always die after playing a gay person."

http://boards.rufuswainwright.com/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=546398&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=3&vc=1

(I am appalled that a Gay Man would joke about Heath's death after what Heath did for the gay comunity!)

Roco  :-*

I think that this “joke” was a kind of black humour (not very clever perhaps) with the shadow of sorrow below the surface. 

At least this was my impression when I read it.
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #488 on: March 05, 2008, 01:46:11 AM »
He's humming right before he encounters the bear when he's bringing their food back to camp. :)

Really? As many times as I've watched BBM I've never noticed that!! Actually I watched it last night for the first time since Heath's death. It wasn't as painfull as I thought it would be allthough the tears started coming at the end with Ennis in his trailer. I couldn't help but feel the similarity, Ennis alone in his trailer, Heath alone in his apartment.  :'( 

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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #489 on: March 05, 2008, 04:04:59 AM »
He hums quite nicely in the bear scene I thought!
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #490 on: March 05, 2008, 04:23:39 AM »
Yes, in the bear scene he hums "Streets of Laredo" aka "A Cowboy's Lament", a sad song about a dying young cowboy.

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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #491 on: March 05, 2008, 06:40:12 AM »
How ironic...

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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #492 on: March 05, 2008, 06:47:05 AM »
Heath also danced in BBM, Knight's Tale, Four Feathers, Casanova, 10 things....

he danced in borthers grimm as well at the end
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #493 on: March 06, 2008, 10:53:46 PM »
Hi.

I usually hang out in Le Bar Slash/Discussion & Recommendation threads of The Juicy Bits, but this seemed like the best place to post this.

One of our local newspaper writers had a very insightfull column today regarding Heath's life and death and the Tabloid feeding frenzy/rush to judgment; it was also posted on his blog, which means I can share it with you all.

http://www.myspace.com/seanleary007


I also wrote him a quick e-mail, thanking him for his insight and fair-mindedness.

-Mary
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Re: Let's Get Serious About Heath
« Reply #494 on: March 07, 2008, 05:18:54 AM »
A beautiful thoughtful article.

It should be on the front page of every newspaper in the country!

Thanks!
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