Does anyone have a success story ??
Eclypto,
Perhaps success story isn't the correct term to use in this case, but I have a story to tell that is tied in with my recent posts here.
As you know, it has been two years since my Partner passed away.
A few days after the "anniversary date" I received a message from a fellow who was responding to my profile that I had posted on a Gay Dating Site (I know, I know, but there aren't a lot of options for an older guy in a smaller prairie city!)
But I had decided to put my profile up because since BBM, I've learned that we have to move forward with our lives, to take chances if you will.
So, we started emailing back and forth, then finally spoke on the phone, then met in person and we are now dating. All within two weeks.
We have connected on so many levels, but the main thing I wanted to mention here on this thread is the following...
We are both the same age and he also lost his Partner two years ago from a sudden heart attack. In fact our Partners died within a month of eachother. Both were younger than us and we had been together about the same amount of time.
It was scary to find out that we had such parallels in our lives, but the fact that we had this in common really drew us togther. We have talked openly about our Partners and our lives together. It doesn't threaten either of us. In fact, it's wonderful to share those memories with another who really understands what it's all about.
This is a story about moving forward. About taking chances.
I really believe in fate. That we were meant to meet at this time and place in our lives.
So - grieve your loss, mourn his passing, take care of yourself, take the time you need to do all of this......
But most of all - live. He would have wanted you to.
Dan