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Offline desertrat

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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #195 on: October 10, 2006, 07:22:52 PM »
listening to your story, dan, i can't help but also believe that this is destiny. good luck and a wonderful future for you ! keep us posted ! (and let us see a pic  ;))
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Re: The Future
« Reply #196 on: October 10, 2006, 07:28:04 PM »
Quote from: phrag3 on October 10, 2006, 07:20:37 PM


This comment follows one made by his Sister-in-Law when she found out. She said that both of our Partners had met in Heaven and had decided that we should be together. I get chills!

Like I said, I believe in fate, or destiny. Things happen when they are meant to.

You just have to seize the moment and run with it.

I'm glad I did.

Dan



chills here as well and i too believe in fate  :)
i`m so happy for you!
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #197 on: October 10, 2006, 11:06:16 PM »
Quote from: phrag3 on October 10, 2006, 07:20:37 PM
Quote from: phrag3 on September 18, 2006, 07:33:11 AM
Quote from: Eclypto on September 12, 2006, 09:03:42 AM
Does anyone have a success story ??

I really believe in fate. That we were meant to meet at this time and place in our lives.


Thought I would post an update.

Four weeks have past and we are still together.

One thing I did not mention in my earlier post is that my Boyfriend's name is Scott! That was my Partner's name as well. Perhaps one of the strangest coincidences of our relationship.

This weekend was Canadian Thanksgiving, so Scott met my Mother and some friends at dinner. It went very well.

This past week Scott told his late Partner's Sister that he was dating. I used to work with the Sister many years ago! Another coincidence. She told Scott that her Brother was intervening to have us get together!

This comment follows one made by his Sister-in-Law when she found out. She said that both of our Partners had met in Heaven and had decided that we should be together. I get chills!

Like I said, I believe in fate, or destiny. Things happen when they are meant to.

You just have to seize the moment and run with it.

I'm glad I did.

Dan

This is beautiful.....and I believe in all that stuff...the spiritual world...how they look after you..

Dan...your post gave me this warmth inside and gave me a hugh lump in my throat...I'm so excited for you and Scott...I can't tell ya.

I want to give you a big big (((((((hug))))))))

Nellie   
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #198 on: October 10, 2006, 08:30:29 PM »
Thanks for all of the warm wishes and HUGS!!!

I'm amazed that I find this Thread the place I want to spend my time in. Some of the others are just too controversial for me.

I've got enough controversy in my job, don't need it here.

And Nellie, don't leave. Just take a breather from time to time. I did and it was what I needed. To back away, then come back, maybe to a different place, but still back.

I think as we "grow" we just can't be in all places all the time. We need to be selective as to where we are most comfortable and where we get comfort. For me, this is one of those spots.

Hugs back to all of you, Desertrat, Conny and Nellie - my girls :) (Hope it's OK to call you that - it's said with affection, and lots of it!)

Dan
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #199 on: October 11, 2006, 05:08:56 AM »
Awwww Dan....one of your girls...that's so sweet   :-[ :-* :-*

I'm glad you feel comfortable here...I have a couple spots as well,and you're right....I need to sit back and take a breather more often....I would do that but at times it wasn't enough....I'm working around it though....one day at a time. and yeah,we can't spread ourselves too thin....I'm realizing that now....

As always, you have such sweet comforting things to say....more (((hugs)))) to you friend

Nellie
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #200 on: October 11, 2006, 05:12:10 AM »
Hey Dan my friend,

thanks for the heart-warming update, my mother, before she became ill, was a spritualist healer and before that a part-time medium. (If that's possible LOL! but you know what I mean). I have lived with this kind of stuff for so long that it no longer surprises me.

I am pleased for you...

(put the girls down! Move away from the girls!   ;D)
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #201 on: October 11, 2006, 05:22:52 AM »
Quote from: Nick_F on October 11, 2006, 05:12:10 AM

(put the girls down! Move away from the girls! ;D)

Hey hey.......you HUSH over there !!!  >:( ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #202 on: October 11, 2006, 05:55:19 AM »
Quote from: Nick_F on October 11, 2006, 05:12:10 AM


(put the girls down! Move away from the girls!   ;D)

hey you,watch it he  ;)

and Dan,am proud to be your girl,that is so sweet.i`m wishing you all the happiness in the world!!
(((hugs)))
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #203 on: October 11, 2006, 08:28:11 AM »
Quote from: Nick_F on October 11, 2006, 05:12:10 AM
(put the girls down! Move away from the girls!   ;D)

grrrr !

love to be dan's girl  :D :D  :-* :-*
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #204 on: October 11, 2006, 04:51:15 PM »
Ooooh listen to you three!

Should I dare mention the words "Fag Hags"


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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #205 on: October 11, 2006, 05:40:48 PM »
Quote from: Nick_F on October 11, 2006, 04:51:15 PM
Ooooh listen to you three!

Should I dare mention the words "Fag Hags"


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They're not Fag Hags, their Fruit Flies.
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #206 on: October 11, 2006, 08:39:01 PM »
Now, Now.

They are wonderful, caring, compassionate WOMEN of the world.

And glad to call them my friends, even though I have not yet been blessed with meeting them in person.

Some day........
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #207 on: October 11, 2006, 10:22:40 PM »
Today, October 12,  is the eight anniversary of Matthew Shepard's death.

Matthew Shepard Foundation:

http://www.matthewshepard.org

Matthew's Place:

http://www.matthewsplace.com/
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #208 on: October 12, 2006, 12:07:54 AM »
Quote from: phrag3 on October 11, 2006, 08:39:01 PM
Now, Now.

They are wonderful, caring, compassionate WOMEN of the world.

And glad to call them my friends, even though I have not yet been blessed with meeting them in person.

Some day........

see there`s a man who knows what he`s talking about!!
sure hope to meet you one day!
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Re: Mourning Someone Who Has Died
« Reply #209 on: October 12, 2006, 03:06:58 AM »
Quote from: Nick_F on October 11, 2006, 04:51:15 PM
Ooooh listen to you three!

Should I dare mention the words "Fag Hags"


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you're just jealous, nick, because today, we're cuddling with dan instead of you !!

 :-* :-* :-*
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