This movie has had an incredible impact on my soul. I can't really use words to describe it. I am a 31 "Gay, Bi or whatever" male and I think that this movie shows, in an incredible way, the power of human love, ...
... and as beautifully displayed in this movie, there are no boundaries on the power of human love, and there's something about male to male love that is so deep that it is almost a universe of it's own, It's the kind of love I wish to experience ~ no matter what the cost.
Hello Gavern.
I wish to add another to the warm welcoming messages to you. I hope that you will find a lot of consolation in this lovely place.
If you should have the time, I would recommend reading earlier posts on the ORIGINAL of this thread. There are thousands of them in there, but it was marvellous therapy for me to be able to read them all, when I was at the early stage that you are at, of reeling after the impact of BBM.
Here is a link to page 1 of it:
http://www.davecullen.com/forum/index.php?topic=101.0Gavern, I have edited your post above, to leave in some parts which really speak to me; but also to say that FOR ME, I must disagree with your closing words there. In my own case, I NOW, post BBM, wish for that M2M closeness which you refer to; however as a long-time married man with an extremely loving wife who will not countenance such a thing; I KNOW that for me, I will probably never experience that M2M physicality, because the cost in losing her would indeed be too much for me. By contrast, it is lovely that you feel so free and so strong that you are able to make that statement. (So please do not misunderstand me, there is NO criticism intended by what I write here; merely my different perspective.)
However, although I don't expect to ever have that M2M physicality now, I am BLESSED in that I briefly had the most beautiful love of a wonderful man in here just over a year ago; and I have the emotional love of two other wonderful men in here who continue to help me through the heart-break; along with several other marvellous correspondents who assist. I am very lucky to have met so many amazing people, and all HERE in this thread.
May your journey on this new road be a happy one for you.
All the best: JohnnyX.