After reading the previous posts I would like to share my experience in seeing the movie with my best friend and business partner. We have been best friends for 35 yrs and business partners for 3 months. I started talking the movie up early last fall, just little comments here and there. Nothing much in response.
When it finally hit our neck of the woods in early January, after I had been talking more and more about it because I had
1. read the short story
2. started posting on this board
I told her I was going to go to see BBM the next night. She asked if I wanted some company. My mouth was opened to my knees.
Although we are best friends, we are far apart in many issues, but what makes us good friends is that we respect those differences and don't let them interfere with
our friendship. I said sure, but reminded her that there were 3 scenes she might have a problem with. She told me not to worry. We went the next evening, I was overwhelmed and she acted underwhelmed. We did not discuss much, but I had my support group here, so that helped me.
A few days later, she started talking about the movie to me. Asking questions, what I thought of a certain scene, did I think another scene meant this...Since then it has opened up a dialog between us, that in 35 yrs of friendship, I never, ever believed we would have. She since has seen it with me a second time at her instigation.
More diverse dialog has ensued. It has been tremendous and astounding. She has asked to meet and have lunch with several of my best friends who are gay when they come to visit me. I firmly believe without this movie sharing experience, these discussions never would have happened. It is wonderful.
In the opposite direction, I brought up the movie in a discussion with my sister-in-law, and she said no, she had "no desire to see two gay cowboys getting it on in the mountains". I also have some acquaintances who have told me they would like to see the movie as husband or boyfriend won't go, but cannot get them to commit to go.
This is
my experience, from one extreme to the other and the middle ground