i hope it is helpful, even if only in bits and pieces.
i was talking to my sister earlier today about someone else we both know who has started counseling about 8 months ago. my sister said this other person said, "the end is in sight" and i thought to myself, "well, good for you but not even close!"
but that's ok. if that thought keeps the person going and makes them feel good about progress made so far, good for them.
how are you doing raffi? have you figured out a way to get those annoying telephone messages from your brother to stop?