Obviously, several of you already had the same idea I had. I have always felt that even if someone were gay they were still expected to be in a relationship and if not they were somewhat less than the partnered people around them. This has been true for many years and I am not imagining that in the "gay" world. It exists. Somehow the idea that someone is "alone" becomes a bad thing. This is not true. Many people actually prefer to be alone. Many people who are partnered like the idea of being alone sometimes too. Having time to yourself can be a very good thing. I have pretty much been partnered with someone since shortly after I came out at 17. I felt I had to be in a relationship. It just seemed to be expected by those around me and I fell for it. The result turned out to be a couple of incredibly bad relationships which I stayed in way too long and wasted too many years of my life for just because I thought I should be in a relationship. Since the last one ended, Thank God, I discovered that it can be so much to do things by myself, go places by myself, etc. My first encounter with that was going to Myrtle Beach, SC last summer about this time of the year. I thought I hated the place. I discovered that my hate for the place had nothing to do with Myrtle Beach. It had everything to do with the lousy times I had there with both of the relationships. I found that I loved the place. I was free to come and go as I pleased, go where I wanted to go and it was incredible how many different people I got to meet and talk with. This past summer I went to New York City, again by myself, and I had an absolutely great time. Some people thought that was strange that someone would go to NYC alone. For me I would not have had it any other way. Again, I saw and did so many things plus talked to so many people. That would not have happened if I would have had some kind of relationship along with me.
Nikki and Michael touched on this, but it very much seems that someone who is alone, meaning not in a relationship, gets these looks and words which indicate "you pour thing" or you're going to end up "alone." You know that is not always a bad thing for everyone.