I am finally reading David McCullough's biography of John Adams. I've always felt a sort of affinity for Adams, I guess you would say, because I've felt he hasn't necessarily gotten the recognition he deserves. You hear/read a lot about Washington, Jefferson, Franklin, Madison, and Hamilton, but as far as I know, not so much about Adams.
What's really remarkable, I think, is the role his wife, Abigail, played in his life, Abigail Adams may best be known for urging her husband "to remember the ladies." McCullough says she was actually at least partly teasing her husband when she wrote that, but in any case it's clear from their correspondence that Adams treated his wife as an equal partner in their marriage. He never condescended or spoke down to her because she was a woman, and he respected her judgment. Their marriage really was a partnership as well as a love story.
(I love that name, Abigail. If I'd had a daughter, that's what I would have wanted to name her.)