RED RIVER is one of my all time favorite films, Jess.
There's a funny scene in which Ireland caresses his gun which is a trifle odd.
Actually it has be argued that there is quite a bit of homoerotic subtext in several of the scenes in "Red River".
The scene you mention also includes that rather bizarre "I'll show you my gun if you'll show me yours" (paraphrase) dialogue.
In addition there is all that cigarette rolling and saliva swapping.
Clifts' "eating a blade of grass" scene.
And then there is Dru's big third act "see everyone knows you love one another" line.
And finally, the "brand" is of a "D" and an "M". The D representing Wayne's character's last name and the "M'
representing Clifts' character's first name. (Matt)
None of it adds up to much as far as I am concerned but many would disagree.
Of course, homoerotic subtext in several of Howard Hawks' films has been
discussed for years, I guess.
Everything from "Bringing Up Baby" in which Cary Grant inexplicably exclaims he is "gay",
(Legend has it this is an ad-lib on the part of Grant),
to Jane Russell's rendition of "Ain't There Anyone Here for Love" which she sings
to a chorus of rather odd "bodybuilders". This scene is SO totally homoerotic blatant that
for years it was cut from television broadcasts of the film.
Hawks did not "direct" any of the musical/dance segments of "Gentleman Prefer Blondes" however.
Jack Cole did and he and Gwen Verdon did the choreography.