In this case I do agree, it only plays into the opposition's hands.
Two nights ago a man blew a van up outside a Right wing Christian group's offices in Canberra, anti-same sex marriage and anti-abortion. He is in a serious condition in the hospital burns ward. The police are saying it was not political or religious motivation. It seems he was just a nutcase. Fortunately it was at 9pm and the offices were empty.
The group of course is playing it up as victimisation and saying it is a result of hate speech against them.
In my city there is an archdeacon who is virulently anti gay. I saw him in a coffee shop one day and while I ignored him, I wrote on my blog that I felt like throwing my coffee over him but that would be a waste of good coffee. One of the church blogs picked it up and spread my comment over NZ Anglican church blogs. My vicar made no comment (he never does) but the curate asked to have a meeting with me. After telling him my past history (we had never really said much more than good morning before), he was sympathetic and told me although he is an evangelical he is changing his mind on homosexuality. However he did criticise my statement saying the archdeacon was a brother in Christ. I just snorted.
The same archdeacon came to our church a few weeks ago. he just sat with his family in the service. If he had taken any official role, I would have walked out. He was standing right behind me at coffee but stayed safe

Our bishop is retiring in April. He has been a leader in pushing for gay rights in the church. I am afraid this archdeacon may be campaigning for the job. If he gets it, I will leave. However I think he is too extreme for most of the people in our diocese which already has a few both open and known only to a few, including the bishop, Gay and Lesbian priests.
Anyway my long message just reinforces that we must be careful as the Right wing like to play the victims at the first opportunity.