You are both right. Just me trying to be optimistic.
I got that look from my sister last year when she came over, while I was trying to have a rational discussion about the candidates. She absolutely refused and actually sulked for two days, refused to go anywhere with us. It made me wonder whether she is perhaps dumber than I thought. My other sister just shook her head at me as if saying "Don't go there".
But while I was watching BBC, CNN, France24, Deutsche Welle, Al Jazeera, etc so that I can get a balanced view, she was watching Fox News on her mobile... hopeless.