Eat Drink Man Woman might actually be his best, up until BBM. However, I must say that the The Wedding Banquet is the first Ang Lee film I ever saw, and at that time both my partner (now for over 19 years) and I felt like it told our story in bizarrely personal detail (I am Euro-American, he is Chinese). It will always hold a warm place in our hearts. Luckily, it was a comedy. Now, with BBM, I feel as if Ang Lee has told another part of my story, an even more personal, secret part of it, and this time he has left me wrecked, desperately searching for a way to bring more truth into my life. He'd better cut it out unless he wants to pay for me to get therapy or something.