I'm still working on my post for this thread; it's a 'work in progress'; but I will agree with those who say don't be afraid to PM someone whose posts may not have been acknowledged, or with someone who you feel a connection with, you never know what will happen. I PM'd with a few in the beginning, and still do with some of them. Then I tried PM'ing with others I felt a 'connection' with: no response at all. Which was fine, but since I'm more Ennis than not, I stopped trying to PM others. Then, out-of-the-blue, some of the ones I had hoped to connect with, PM'd me! It was like a dose of Fresh Air, changed my whole outlook here. Life is like that for me now, taking baby steps, but I will NOT go back to the way I was before, don't laugh but I lurked here for 18+ months before joining.......still kicking myself over that............haha....I have met some of the most wonderful and warm souls in here, and so many, many intelligent, articulate and thoughtful posters too......just amazing really.........